It can be such an honor to be asked to be part of someone’s wedding party, but it can also be an unexpected cost. You’ve got showers and parties to plan, gifts to buy, and an outfit for the big day. Here’s a breakdown of some of the typical wedding party responsibilities and items you might need to account for in your budget.
Maid of honor and bridesmaids
Costs vary from wedding to wedding, but on average a bridesmaid can expect to spend about $1,650 or more to be part of the wedding.1 This generally includes the dress and any potential alterations, shoes, accessories, and hair and makeup. If alterations aren’t a concern, check online, you may be able to rent your bridesmaid dress instead of buying it. To recoup your cost, you may be able to sell your dress after the wedding.
In addition to your wedding day attire, you may be responsible to help plan and pay for a bridal shower and bachelorette party, which could include travel expenses (especially for out of town or destination weddings) and new outfits. However, you don’t have to spend a fortune on these events—from using online travel discounts to dressing up an existing outfit with new accessories, there are ways to save money and stay within your budget.
Best man and groomsmen
While groomsmen don’t generally have to plan and pay for showers, bachelor parties are common and can be one of the larger expenses, especially when travel is involved. On average, a groomsman spends about $1,600 to be part of the wedding, which may include expenses such as pre-wedding events, travel (especially for out of town or destination weddings) purchasing gifts, and either buying or renting a tuxedo. To add, having a haircut or shave is a big part of the day.1Attending the wedding & your budget
Sometimes, when you see all the costs add up, it can feel like a lot to handle. Don't stress. Making a budget and finding affordable ways to celebrate the couple is a smart move to avoid getting into debt.
If you take a close look at your money situation and realize that you can't afford the extra expenses of being in the wedding party—it's okay. Politely decline the invitation and think about going as a guest instead. It's all about finding the best way to celebrate while staying within your means.